I Wish You Could Hear This

Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
Relationship tripwires. Mental health puzzles. Confusing work dynamics. You’re not the only one scratching your head. But now you have a secret decoder ring! Each episode of I Wish You Could Hear This is packed with proven, simple, and surprising secrets that help you thrive in life, faith, and relationships. Researchers Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have spent decades interviewing and surveying more than 40,000 people to identify the little things that make a big difference in our lives. They’re Harvard-educated, Christian authors and speakers who also happen to be happily married, analytically minded, and a whole lot of fun! Join them and their guests for real stories, real help, and real hope.
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Episode 19: Unlock the Sensitive Side of Men: humor and insights from Dave Barnes
September 9, 2025 - 35 min
Episode 18: Happy Couples Hang Out
August 26, 2025 - 26 min
Episode 17: When the Wife Wants More Sex, with J. Parker
August 12, 2025 - 32 min
Episode 15: The Science of Male and Female Communication
July 29, 2025 - 41 min
Episode 14: Navigating Marriage: Insights with Michelle Lentz
July 15, 2025 - 43 min
Season 1 Episode 13 BONUS Looking Back, Moving Forward
July 1, 2025 - 28 min
A Boy Mom Cracks the Code on Male Behavior with Jenilee Samuel-Season 1 Episode 12
June 17, 2025 - 44 min
Making Marriage Easier with Arlene Pellicane-Season 1 Episode 11
June 3, 2025 - 43 min
The Impact of 'No Contact’ on Families-Season 1 Episode 10
May 20, 2025 - 43 min
Fame, Faith, and Putting Marriage First with Montel and Kristin Jordan - Part 2-Season 1 Episode 9
May 6, 2025 - 31 min
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Meet Your Host
Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn are best-selling authors, popular speakers, and internationally-renowned social researchers. Nearly twenty years ago, this average couple stumbled over some things they didn’t “get” about each other. They have been using their analytical backgrounds to help other semi-confused couples decode each other ever since.

Both with graduate degrees from Harvard, Shaunti and Jeff are the authors and co-authors of many groundbreaking books, such as For Women Only, For Men Only,  The Kindness Challenge, and When Hurting People Come to Church.

For more from Jeff and Shaunti, visit www.shaunti.com.
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