What Every Dad Needs to Know About Your Teenage Daughter, with Michelle Watson Canfield

June 16, 2026
00:00 44:51
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Summary:

In this episode, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn sit down with author, counselor, and father-daughter relationship expert Michelle Watson Canfield to explore one of the most challenging seasons of parenting: connecting with adolescent daughters.

Many dads feel uncertain about how to respond when their daughters become more emotional, pull away, or seem resistant to their efforts. Michelle shares a powerful insight she has observed through years of counseling: many men would rather do nothing than risk doing it wrong—but when it comes to fathering daughters, stepping back often creates more distance.

Together, Shaunti, Jeff, and Michelle unpack why dads often feel sidelined during the teenage years, how mothers can become caught in the middle, and practical ways fathers can stay engaged even when conversations feel awkward or difficult.

You’ll learn:

  • Why many dads instinctively pull back—and why that can be harmful
  • How to stay calm and grounded when emotions run high
  • Practical ways to pursue your daughter with intention and consistency
  • Why your presence matters more than your perfection
  • How to build trust and connection during the adolescent years

If you've ever felt unsure how to connect with your daughter—or worried that you're getting it wrong—this conversation will equip and encourage you to keep showing up.

Because your daughter doesn't need a perfect dad. She needs an engaged one.

Links and Resources:

Website: drmichellewatson.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/drmichellewatson

Instagram: michellejwatson and thedadwhispererpodcast

Twitter: @mwatsonphd

LinkedIn: Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield

The Dad Whisperer Podcast: Apple Podcasts + Spotify

YouTube: @thedadwhisperer

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Meet Your Host
Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn are best-selling authors, popular speakers, and internationally-renowned social researchers. Nearly twenty years ago, this average couple stumbled over some things they didn’t “get” about each other. They have been using their analytical backgrounds to help other semi-confused couples decode each other ever since.

Both with graduate degrees from Harvard, Shaunti and Jeff are the authors and co-authors of many groundbreaking books, such as For Women Only, For Men Only,  The Kindness Challenge, and When Hurting People Come to Church.

For more from Jeff and Shaunti, visit www.shaunti.com.
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