Faith Over Fear

We won’t experience the relational health and intimacy our hearts crave until we learn how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. We’re afraid, if we set boundaries, we’ll hurt those we love, will damage a relationship irreparably, or will cause the other person to retaliate. In this episode, author and counselor Tanya Glazman shares her insights regarding a number of fears many of us face along with tools that can help us move forward in freedom and increased relational health. Find Tanya Glazman online at:https://myfathersdaughterministries.wordpress.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/myfathersdaughterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/myfathersdaughterministry/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr0j7hOz8THL2wwECRbtSRwPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/my-fathers-daughter/id1499547998Suggested Resources:Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John TownsendThriving With Chronic Illness Podcast: Setting Boundaries Part 1: https://www.lifeaudio.com/thriving-with-chronic-illness/episode-5-setting-boundaries-part-1Thriving With Chronic Illness Podcast: Setting Boundaries Part 2: https://www.lifeaudio.com/thriving-with-chronic-illness/episode-6-setting-boundaries-part-2Group Discussion Questions:1. What makes setting and maintaining healthy boundaries most challenging for you?2. When has failure to set boundaries led to relational harm?3. When has failure to set boundaries led you to feel increased emotional distress?4. Love without truth is dangerous. When have you seen this to be true?5. Truth without love is often destructive. When have you seen this to be true?6. Consider a challenging relationship. In what ways, if any, is a lack of truth to blame?7. What is one step God might be asking you to take in that relationship?Episode Image Credit: Getty/Nadia Bormotova Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In order to experience the deep freedom Christ desires for us, we must have the courage to feel, and to invite him into that process. Find Leigh Mackenzie online at:http://www.thechurchgirlwrites.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheChurchGirlWritesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thechurchgirlwrites/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2Vliq-7j5DBBPtapnZJoUg Suggested Resources:Cry of the Soul by Dan Allender and Tremper LongmanHealing the Wounded Heart by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman Becoming His Princess Bible study by Wholly Loved Ministries“Waiting Well” video production, by Jennifer Slattery and Wholly Loved Ministries found: https://youtu.be/bFWsTSg9his“Reclaiming Our Identity,” video production by Jennifer Slattery and Wholly Loved Ministries found: https://youtu.be/RBz-0ZzFXeYGroup Discussion Questions:1. What are some unhealthy ways people attempt to deal with emotional pain?2. What are some unhealthy ways you deal with, or are tempted to deal with, emotional pain?3. Do you have any fears related to past hurts or allowing yourself to feel and grieve? If so, what are they?4. What does it meant to you to “feel with Jesus”?5. Consider some of your “gut reactions”. What are some ways you can invite Jesus to help you investigate those for deeper analysis and healing?6. What might it look like to remain stuck in a past hurt?7. What might it look like to develop a victim mentality when it comes to past hurts? 8. In what ways does or can victim mentality hinder our freedom and thus our joy?9. In what ways can seeking help from a mental health professional help facilitate healing?10. What is one action step Jesus is asking you to take based on this podcast episode?Episode Image Credit: Getty/ilyaliren Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Our economy has received numerous hits this past year, leaving many of us unsettled. Many fear they’ll lose their jobs, retirement, or homes. Others are enduring the challenges of unemployment. In a time of financial uncertainty, we need to anchor ourselves in a security that stands immovable. That security is Jesus Christ, our Provider. In this episode, Jennifer shares some ways we can increase our faith to retain peace, no matter the economic climate. Financial Resources:Crown Financial Ministries: https://www.crown.org/Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University: https://www.daveramsey.com/fpuFind Jennifer Slattery at:https://www.JenniferSlatteryLivesoutLoudhttps://www.facebook.com/JenSlatteFind her ministry, Wholly Loved, at:https://www.WhollyLoved.comGroup Discussion Questions:1. Pause to consider your anxiety related to your finances. What fears are attached? What lies are attached to those fears? What truths counter those lies? 2. What tensions do you feel? (Ex: wanting to spend more time with your family and also wanting to increase work hours to provide for them.)3. How do your fears impact your ability to set and maintain healthy boundaries?4. In what ways might God be using your circumstances to grow you? 5. Do you believe God is fighting for you? If so, how does it feel to know this? If not, take a moment now to ask Him to help you trust that this is true.6. In what ways has God provided for you in the past? 7. When you feel anxious regarding your finances, how often do you pause to remember God’s past provisions?8. Is there anything you can do differently today to create a financially healthier tomorrow? If so, what is that?Episode Image Credit: Getty/Mykyta Dolmatov Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Most of us don’t like waiting. The longer we wait, whether that’s for a job, an answer, or perhaps for God to fix a problem, often, the more anxious we feel.In this episode, Jennifer shares some truths that can help us wait confidently and courageously, knowing that God is loving and faithful and will perfect His plans for us. Resources on Waiting Courageously:Becoming His Princess Bible Study: https://whollyloved.com/product/becoming-his-princess-bible-study-print-version/Becoming His Princess Bible Study, Week Five Video: Waiting Well: https://youtu.be/bFWsTSg9hisForgotten God by Francis ChanFind Jennifer Slattery at:JenniferSlatteryLivesoutLoudhttps://www.facebook.com/JenSlatteFind her ministry, Wholly Loved, at:WhollyLoved.comCourageous Group Discussion Questions:1. What are you currently waiting for?2. In what area do you most struggle to wait on God’s timing?3. Is fear of failure or disappointment affecting your ability to wait?4. During waiting periods, who do you tend to turn to first—God or people?5. Do you believe God wants to guide you? 6. What is God asking you to do today?7. Has impatience ever led to regret, and if so how?8. Why is it important to rest in where God has you now? 9. What might God be showing you regarding the condition of your heart during your waiting period?10. What might it look like to “bloom where you’re planted?”Episode Image Credit: Getty/Anna Minkina Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Our world feels chaotic and uncertainty. With so much changing and beyond our control, many of us are feeling increasingly anxious. But we can stand strong, confident, and courageous, no matter our circumstances, because our world is held by a God who loves us, sees us, is with us, and reigns over all. While life might feel uncertain, in truth it’s not, because God always retains full control. In this episode, author and speaker Jennifer Slattery shares tips and truths able to anchor our souls in hope and faith. Find Jennifer Slattery at:https://www.JenniferSlatteryLivesoutLoud.comhttps://www.facebook.com/JenSlatte.comFind her ministry, Wholly Loved, at:https://www.WhollyLoved.comGroup Discussion Questions:1. What in your world currently feels most uncertain?2. What are some truths you can hold tight to when life feels uncertain?3. What qualities of God most bring you comfort?4. What are some ways you can remind yourself of those truths and qualities when you sense anxiety rising?5. When something causes you significant concern, have you considered asking God for assurances? If so, what was the result? If not, is this something you might consider in the future?6. Why might it be helpful to periodically ask God to increase your faith?7. What are some biblical examples of seemingly chaotic circumstances providing backdrops for a great work of God?8. What do you think the psalmist meant in Psalm 16:7 when he said his heart counseled him at night?9. Have you ever fought against your fears through praise?10. Why do you think praise can be such a powerful faith-building tool?Image Credit: Getty/Malte Mueller Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Most of us are conflict-averse, often to our own detriment. Often, when we try to avoid issues, the problem grows. When we learn to hold difficult conversations, following God’s lead, we'll find decreased inner turmoil and increased inner peace.In this episode, author and speaker Jennifer Slattery shares practical tips to help us grow more confident in our ability to resolve conflicts effectively, in a Christ-honoring manner.Episode Resources:1. The Peace Maker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict by Ken Sande2. Making Peace: A Guide to Overcoming Church Conflict by Jim Van Yperen3. "7 Things You Need to Know When Talking to Difficult People" by Jennifer SlatteryFighting Fear Group Discussion Questions:1. How was conflict handled in your home growing up?2. How do you most often respond to conflict?3. Consider someone you know who handles conflict effectively. What makes their actions most effective?4. Why is it so important to give God ample time to search and reveal our hearts prior to initiating hard conversations?5. Why is pride harmful to our relationships and to ourselves?6. What are some ways our faulty perceptions can negatively impact our relationships and discussions?7. What are some behaviors, in relation to hard conversations, God might be asking you to unlearn?8. What are some behaviors, in relation to hard conversations, might you need to learn in order to communicate more effectively?Episode Image Credit: Getty/Malte Mueller Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

This episode isn’t just for homeschooling moms. We’re talking to all parents about the fears and realities of a school year that is going to look far different than it ever has before.Whether you’ve been homeschooling for some time or have been thrown into home educating this year, you likely wrestle with insecurities and fears. What if you don’t teach your kids everything they need academically? What if your daily interactions harm your relationship? In this episode, homeschooling expert Jennifer Henn shares truths, tools, and tips that carried her and her family through nearly two decades of home education.Find Jennifer Henn online at:https://www.jenniferhenn.com/https://www.facebook.com/The-Well-Adjusted-Homeschooler-343613345831777/Contact her at: Jennifer@JenniferHenn.comHer book: Take the Mystery Out of Homeschooling: A How-To GuideFind Jennifer Slattery at:JenniferSlatteryLivesoutLoudhttps://www.facebook.com/JenSlatteGroup Discussion Questions:1.What is one truth presented in this episode that you can hold tight to in the coming year?2.How prepared do you feel for the year ahead?3.What fears do you have related to home educating your children?4.What are you most looking forward to this school year?5.In what ways can you see God guiding you as a parent/grandparent/guardian?6.What might it look like to surrender your child’s growth to God?7.In what ways have you allowed a sense of comparison to increase your anxiety?8.What are some ways you can more actively live in grace—for yourself and your kids?9.Why is it important to take a long-term view of our children’s education?10.How can you use behavioral challenges encountered during your home educating experiences to deepen your relationship with your kids?Episode Image Credit: Getty/Emilija Randjelovic Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

As followers of Christ, we are His representatives to a hurting and broken world. We’re called to live and love as He did, and Jesus sought out the marginalized and oppressed and called out the oppressor. In this episode, Jennifer Slattery’s daughter, Ashley Chester, shares her battle against a university’s Student Services of Disabilities Office to see that they were actually enforcing the accommodations they were legally required to honor. Initially, her fight was personal as she fought against abuses of power she experienced. But as she became more connected with other students with disabilities, she realized her battle extended beyond her. While this was a difficult and stressful time, God used it to grow her into a woman of strength and to present her with numerous opportunities she likely wouldn’t have enjoyed otherwise. Find Jennifer Slattery at:JenniferSlatteryLivesoutLoudhttps://www.facebook.com/JenSlatteFind her ministry, Wholly Loved, at:https://whollyloved.com/Group Discussion Questions:1. What are some injustices or abuses of power God has allowed you to see?2. How do you normally respond when you see abuses of power?3. Is there anyone God might be calling you to advocate for?4. What does godly advocacy look like?5. What are some fears that keep you from advocating for others in a godly way?6. Consider a cause you feel drawn to. How connected are you to the community most affected by that cause?7. Why is relationship important when we advocate?8. What are some ways to advocate for others in a way that speaks honor?9. If you have accepted the call of advocate, how is God growing you through your efforts?Episode Image Credit: Getty/Malte Mueller Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Our fight against fear is an ongoing battle. To be victorious, we need to persevere and keep fighting. Often, we both underestimate AND overestimate our fears. We underestimate them by assuming we’ll have instant victory and not understanding the battle we will face as we advance toward increased freedom. But we also overestimate our fear by assigning our anxious thoughts more power than is warranted. We believe we’re powerless against our anxious thinking and that we’re powerless against the pull. But in Christ, we have victory. We just need to learn to live, more consistently, in the victory Christ already purchased. We need to learn to throw off everything that hinders our freedom and pursuit of our calling. Find Jennifer at: https://www.jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/JenSlatteInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/slatteryjennifer/Twitter: https://twitter.com/jenslatteryFind her ministry, Wholly Loved, at: https://whollyloved.com/Group Discussion Questions:1. In what ways is our fight against fear an ongoing battle?2. In what ways are you actively engaging in the fight?3. How does fear shift our focus off of Christ?4. How can focusing on eternity help increase our faith?5. How can focusing on the cross increase our faith?6. What does it mean to live with victory—even while afraid?7. What activities must you cease doing in order to guard or increase your peace?8. How are you filling your heart and mind with truth?9. Why is it important, in our battle against fear, to surround ourselves with faith-warriors?10. How can our peers negatively impact our faith and increase our anxiety level? Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

The evil of racism has pervaded our world for far too long, and God is calling his children to act. As children of light, empowered by God’s life-giving Spirit, we are called to speak against oppression and abuse and to come alongside those who are hurting. Many of us can feel the weight of grief experienced by our friends of color, but we don’t always know how to help or what to do. In this episode, Wholly Loved Ministries team members Jennifer Slattery and Robrenna Redl discuss ways we can unite together to bring healing and affect true and lasting change.Resources:• Be the Bridge: Pursuing God's Heart for Racial Reconciliation by Latasha Morrison • The Myth of Equality: Uncovering the Roots of Injustice and Privilege by Ken Wytsma• Oneness Embraced: Reconciliation the Kingdom and How We are Stronger Together by Dr. Tony Evans• White Awake: An Honest Look at What it Means to Be White by Daniel Hill• Divided by Faith: Evangelical Religion and the Problem of Race in America by Michael O Emerson and Christian Smith• How to be an Anti-racists - Ibram X KendiContact Robrenna through the Wholly Loved website HERE to have her speak to your group on how to be a bridge of reconciliation or to book her for your next women’s event.Find Robrenna Redl at: https://robrennaredl.wordpress.com/Group Discussion Questions:1. Why is it important to have diversity within our social and ministry circles?2. What are some ways you’ve seen racism to be systemic?3. How often do you invite others to share their hurts and experiences related to racism? 4. How often do you share your stories of hurt related to racism? If you have done this, what has been the response? If you have not shared openly, or as openly as you would desire, why is this? 5. What does it mean to “listen well” to someone who is hurting?6. What are some tangible actions you can take to fight racism? Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.