Rebuilding Us: Christian Marriage Advice for Couples

On today’s episode, we’re talking about the specific work required to make a marriage work. The truth about relationships is if you work it, it will work. There’s so much that goes into a successful marriage. I recently heard someone say the way you spell love is E-F-F-O-R-T. We have to put in the effort to make our marriages work—ultimately strengthening the marriage bond. This is a sweet repeat (re-run) of episode 79 but the message is as timely as ever. Effort and work in relationships cannot be overlooked. As I share personal stories and insights from my own marriage, I stress the importance of intentionality in cultivating a successful marriage. Just as achieving fitness goals demands intentionality and planning, so does nurturing a thriving relationship. It's a journey that demands perseverance, adaptability, and a commitment to constant growth. Listen as I share five tips to improving your marriage with next-level intentionality.  Get the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/201.   Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Get your free Conversation Starters to Better Communication While in Conflict here.  Episode 76: 8 Reasons Why Women Won’t Initiate Sex   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Fear is a natural response to danger. But it can also paralyze your progress. In this  Faith Friday episode, we're drawing parallels between fear and faith. Listen as we share insights from scripture and offer practical encouragement for dealing with fear and choosing faith over fear. Key Points: - How to turn your fear into faith - The role of trust in shaping future outcomes - Examples from scripture of individuals who battled fear and overcame it through faith - Encouragement for listeners to meditate on and apply specific scriptures to combat fear Get the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/200. Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Get your Speak Life audio affirmations here.   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

As a relationship coach, I've witnessed and experienced the struggle that can come with effectively communicating feelings, especially during conflicts. So, I'm here to offer you some valuable insights and practical tips that can transform your approach to expressing feelings and navigating conversations with more confidence and clarity. This episode will help you to express your feelings without causing misunderstandings in your relationships. Conflict is Normal First and foremost, I can't stress enough the importance of understanding that conflict is a normal part of any relationship. It's essential to recognize that disagreements and differences of opinion are natural when two unique individuals come together. However, it's crucial to distinguish healthy conflict from harmful behaviors such as aggression or verbal abuse. As I always say, conflict is inevitable, but it doesn't have to be destructive. Get the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/199.   Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Ep. 55: How to Get Over An Argument Quickly Having a hard time starting important conversations? Get Your Free Conversation Guide Here. Learn How to Communicate In Conflict with My Online Course   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In the fast-paced and ever-changing world of the 21st century, where trends come and go, and society rapidly evolves, it’s easy to wonder “Is the Bible still relevant today?” Do the ancient texts of the Bible speak to current life? This age-old question, "Is the Bible still relevant today?" often arises, sparking debates and contemplation among believers and non-believers alike. In this Faith Friday episode we delve into this timeless inquiry, offering insights that shed light on the enduring significance of the Bible in contemporary times. The pivotal role of the Bible is to illuminate the character and nature of God and his plan for humanity. In this episode, we highlight two scripture verses from Isaiah and Psalms that underpin the enduring nature of God's word. Find the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/198. Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Download your FREE Speak Life Affirmations Audio here. Connect with me on Instagram   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Finding Fulfillment in the Relationship Season You're In - with Michelle McKinney-Hammond Michelle McKinney-Hammond and I delve into the seasons of relationships and the need to navigate the changes we find ourselves in. Welcome to part two of this important and transformative conversation. From the challenges of marriage to the importance of vulnerability and growth, this episode is packed with wisdom and relatable experiences that will resonate with listeners at any stage of their relationships. We kick off the conversation with a powerful message from Michelle, emphasizing the importance of allowing people their humanity and managing expectations in relationships. This sets the tone for the entire episode, as both Michelle and I discuss how we’ve had to navigate the complexities of our relationships with empathy and understanding. One of the highlights of this episode is the candid discussion about the challenges of marriage. Michelle and I discuss the need for vulnerability, growth, and maturity in relationships. Marriage is not a destination, but a journey that requires continuous effort and personal development. The exposure of personal brokenness in marriage is addressed, shedding light on the necessity of addressing and healing from past wounds for a successful partnership. Visit realrelationshiptalk.com/197 for the full show notes.    Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Michelle Hammond's Website Get Your Copy of When Shift Happens Get Your Free Resource: Conversation Starters for Heart-to-Heart Communication Register For My New Online Course! From Conflict to Connection     SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

If we’re honest, we all deal with jealousy from time to time. Have you ever wondered how not to be consumed by jealousy when you see others enjoying what you desire? Welcome to another Faith Friday episode of Relationship Talk. In today's episode, we're diving back into the topic of jealousy and how to overcome it. Last week, we talked about handling jealousy from others, but today, it's all about what to do when we find ourselves struggling with jealousy. Scripture on Jealousy  James 4:1-3: What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don’t they come from the evil desires at war within you? 2 You want what you don’t have so you scheme and kill to get it. You are jealous of what others have, but you can’t get it, so you fight and wage war to take it away from them. Yet you don’t have what you want because you don’t ask God for it. 3 And even when you ask, you don’t get it because your motives are all wrong - you want only what will give you pleasure.  What do you do when you’re jealous of something or someone in your life? Maybe it's someone else's relationship, career, or blessings. The first antidote to jealousy is simple: ask God. But ask with the right motives. Reflect on why you desire what you're asking for. If your motives are purely self-serving, it may not align with God's plan for you.  Check out the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/196 and learn the two antidotes for jealousy.   Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Ep. 194: Haters Gon’ Hate - Dealing with Jealous People Ep. 170: When Heaven is Silent - The Truth Behind Unanswered Prayer Sign up for my brand-new “From Conflict to Connection” course Get your FREE “Speak Life” audio affirmations download here   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Are you feeling the stirring of a new season approaching in your life and wondering how to navigate the uncertainties and opportunities it brings? I'm excited to share my conversation with best-selling author and international speaker Michelle McKinney-Hammond with you! Her influence has been monumental in my spiritual journey. Michelle’s teaching at a conference years ago led to my rededication to God, and it's a story I often recount with profound gratitude. Our discussion centered around her book, When Shift Happens, which brilliantly encapsulates life's transitions through the lens of different seasons. Michelle explained how life, much like the seasons in nature, is full of cyclical changes. Embracing these seasons, understanding them, and responding appropriately is vital. When Relationships Shift  We extended our conversation to include relationships, especially marriage. Michelle emphasized the need to rediscover the joy and purpose in marriage, suggesting that couples engage in kingdom activities together. This perspective is crucial for maintaining a vibrant relationship. Find the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/195   Links Mentioned in This Episode:  Michelle Hammond Website Get Your Copy of When Shift Happens Get Your Free Resource: Conversation Starters for Heart-to-Heart Communication Register for my new online course! From Conflict to Connection   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

If we’re honest, we’ve all been jealous of others and have had others jealous of us. How do you deal with jealous people in your life? On this Faith Friday, we’re focusing on this somewhat uncomfortable yet crucial topic: jealousy and envy. Whether you've experienced jealousy yourself or been the target of others' envy, there’s a right way to handle the haters.   Key Discussion Points Understanding Jealousy and Envy: Differentiating between jealousy (wanting to keep what one already has) and envy (desiring what someone else has). Brene Brown's insights on these emotions set the stage for our discussion. James 3:16 For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind.  Personal Anecdote: Reflecting on a childhood experience, I share something my mom taught me: Imitation is the highest form of flattery.  Get the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/194.   Links Mentioned in This Episode:  Get my new Connection Course <—Use Discount Code! “CONNECTION50” (good until 12/1/23.) Need Help in Conflict? Download my free “Conversation Starters” here!   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Does it seem like your spouse or partner doesn’t listen to you? Maybe you find yourself wondering how to talk in order that they will listen and understand you. Listening skills are an essential topic of communication within relationships which is why I'm dedicating a new series to how to communicate in conflict called "From Conflict to Connection." Today’s episode will teach you principles and guide you toward a better understanding and improving communication with your partner. I discuss common communication mistakes partners make when communicating and the importance of listening skills. I also offer practical and "pro" tips for better communication. We also explore how to approach sensitive topics, the importance of timing and mood, and how to influence your partner to listen to you when you communicate. Visit realrelationshiptalk.com/193 for the full show notes.   Links Mentioned in This Episode: Get my new Connection Course <—Use Discount Code! “CONNECTION50” (good until 12/1/23.) EP 191 Bids for Connection  Need Help in Conflict? Download my free “Conversation Starters” here!   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

The key to receiving your next is to be thankful for what’s now. In this episode, we’re discussing how to live a life of expectation for what’s next and appreciation for what’s now.  Do you find yourself asking why this or why me? Today, I want to challenge you to ask yourself what you could be thankful for in that same moment. I'm overflowing with gratitude to be here with you all, especially after a wonderful Thanksgiving. I hope your hearts, like mine, are brimming with thankfulness. Today, we discuss the power of gratitude and how it shapes our lives, drawing inspiration from the phrase "being thankful.” My focus today is on living with exceptional expectations. We often find ourselves eagerly anticipating the "next" big thing in our lives, always looking forward. While it's great to look forward, I believe the key to truly enjoying and receiving our "next" is to develop an attitude of gratitude. This might sound cliché, but I assure you, it's transformative. Find the full show notes at RealRelationshipTalk.com/192.   Links Mentioned  The Truth Behind Unanswered Prayers  Get Your FREE Conversation Starters Guide for More Heart-toHeart Communication Here.   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.