Ep. 123 Chris Janssen | Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want
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Today, we sit down with Chris Janssen, MA, BCC, a board-certified results coach, author, and expert in performance and mindset. Chris shares her deeply personal journey with alcohol, from growing up in a non-drinking household to battling a secretive drinking habit in adulthood. She first got sober in 2007 but went back to alcohol during the pandemic, an experience that brought her to a deeper understanding of grace, community, and personal transformation.
Chris discusses the themes of her book, Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want, highlighting the role of self-compassion in recovery, how to navigate perfectionism, and why so many high achievers struggle with alcohol. She also offers practical tools for handling cravings, shifting toxic narratives, and finding a supportive community. Whether you're on your own sobriety journey or supporting a loved one, this episode offers encouragement and actionable steps for embracing a life of freedom and grace.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
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The importance of grace and self-compassion in the freedom from alcohol journey
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How to break free from perfectionism and self-sabotage
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Why high achievers are often drawn to alcohol and unhealthy coping mechanisms
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Practical tools for handling cravings and shifting negative narratives
Connect with Chris:
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Website: www.chrisjanssencoaching.com
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Book: Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want
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Christy, a former lawyer with a background in law, business, and politics, experienced radical renewal after choosing sobriety. Now a senior sobriety coach and author of Love Life Sober (Penguin Random House), she helps women renew their minds and rediscover joy through a powerful blend of faith, neuroscience, and practical tools.
Meade, a former pharmaceutical rep and stay-at-home mom, looked like she had it all together—but felt stuck in a nightly-ish wine habit. Once she realized the issue was less about drinking and more about thinking, everything changed. Now a senior certified coach and creator of the Change-Your-Thinking-to-Change-Your-Drinking method and The Missing P.E.A.C.E. framework, Meade helps women ditch shame, reclaim purpose, and live with peace and joy.
Together, we create loving, Spirit-led spaces where women can explore their relationship with alcohol, renew their minds, and pursue the freedom they were made for.
Christy lives in Surrey, England; Meade outside Atlanta. We're just two women who surrendered our wine glasses, found something far better in Jesus, and now have the joy of helping others do the same.