The Lies We Believe and the Truth That Sets Us Free | Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast Week 2
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In Week 2 of our 6-part Monday series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we’re diving into Days 8–13—a powerful stretch focused on mindset, identity, and learning to renew your mind in Christ.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in your thoughts, trapped by unhelpful labels, or frustrated that willpower isn’t cutting it, this week is for you. We explore the truth behind the stories we tell ourselves—and how taking your thoughts captive, anchoring your identity in Jesus, and learning to recognize your triggers can begin to shift everything.
Whether you're mid-fast, just getting started, or preparing for September’s live-coached fast, these insights will help you move from shame to self-awareness, and from self-effort to spiritual renewal.
📘 This week covers:
🧠 Day 8: Take Every Thought Captive
How metacognition (thinking about your thinking) helps you stop letting lies lead—and start aligning your thoughts with God’s truth.
🏷️ Day 9: Ditching the Label
Why you don’t need to call yourself an “alcoholic” to pursue freedom—and how unhelpful labels can limit what God wants to do.
⚠️ Day 10: The Willpower Trap
Willpower runs out. Good news: Jesus doesn’t. Why grace, habit change, and identity work better.
🙏 Day 11: Prime with Prayer
How prayer can move beyond performance and become your lifeline for connection, comfort, and clarity.
🔁 Day 12: Understanding Triggers and Habits
What’s really happening underneath your urges to drink—and how to respond with wisdom, not autopilot.
🚫 Day 13: Overcome the Urge to Drink
The HALT tool (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) and other tactical ways to pause and reset when cravings strike.
💌 Resources & Links:
📣 Join the September 40 Day Fast
Registration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong.
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📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind
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Christy, a former lawyer with a background in law, business, and politics, experienced radical renewal after choosing sobriety. Now a senior sobriety coach and author of Love Life Sober (Penguin Random House), she helps women renew their minds and rediscover joy through a powerful blend of faith, neuroscience, and practical tools.
Meade, a former pharmaceutical rep and stay-at-home mom, looked like she had it all together—but felt stuck in a nightly-ish wine habit. Once she realized the issue was less about drinking and more about thinking, everything changed. Now a senior certified coach and creator of the Change-Your-Thinking-to-Change-Your-Drinking method and The Missing P.E.A.C.E. framework, Meade helps women ditch shame, reclaim purpose, and live with peace and joy.
Together, we create loving, Spirit-led spaces where women can explore their relationship with alcohol, renew their minds, and pursue the freedom they were made for.
Christy lives in Surrey, England; Meade outside Atlanta. We're just two women who surrendered our wine glasses, found something far better in Jesus, and now have the joy of helping others do the same.
