How to Desire Body Change Without Self-Hate: Embracing Acceptance While Pursuing Goals, Ep 9 Waiting for Weight Loss Series

March 09, 2026
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Welcome back to the "Waiting for Weight Loss" Lenten series on the Compared to Who? Podcast! In this heartfelt episode, host Heather Creekmore dives deep into the challenge so many face: How can we desire body change or weight loss while still honoring, loving, and accepting the bodies we have—right now?

Episode Highlights:

  • Heather Creekmore unpacks why self-hatred is NOT a biblical motivator for change, and what healthier (and more effective) alternatives look like.

  • You’ll hear practical, grace-filled advice on:

    • Buying clothes that fit and flatter your body today, not waiting for a “goal weight.”

    • Stopping the cycle of body checking, mirror scanning, and anxious self-critique.

    • Shifting your mindset from shame-driven to gratitude-driven, even if you’re still on the journey to acceptance.

    • Releasing comparison and learning to thank your body for all it’s helped you accomplish, instead of shaming it for what it’s not.

    • Embracing the foundation of being loved and accepted by Jesus as you are, regardless of your current size or shape.

Key Takeaways:

  • It's absolutely possible to want change for your body without making shame your motivation.

  • Acceptance now actually sets you up for healthier choices later—no more waiting for the "perfect" time or body.

  • True transformation starts with knowing you are already fully loved in Christ.

Join the Community:
Don’t try to tackle these tough topics alone! Join our free Waiting for Weight Loss community at waitingforweightloss.com and connect with other like-minded Christian women, get your questions answered, and receive coaching and encouragement on your journey.

Let’s heal together—and walk through Lenten transformation with acceptance, dignity, and hope.


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Meet Your Host
Heather Creekmore writes and speaks hope to thousands of women each week inspiring them to stop comparing and start living. Her first book Compared to Who? encourages women to uncover the spiritual root of body image issues and find freedom. Her latest release, The Burden of Better, offers women a journey into the depths of God's grace to find a way off the treadmill of constant comparison. Heather has been featured on Fox News, Huff Post, Morning Dose, Church Leaders, and For Every Mom, along with dozens of other shows and podcasts. But she's best recognized for her appearance as a contestant on the Netflix hit show, Nailed It. Heather and her fighter-pilot-turned-pastor husband, Eric have four children and live in Austin, Texas.

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Website: https://comparedtowho.me/
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