I’m Sorry if They Told You It Would Be Easy: How Growing Up Helps Us Face Hard Things

In this “Compared to Who?” episode, Heather Creekmore talks about how growing in spiritual maturity can help you break free from comparison and body image struggles. She gently challenges listeners to re-examine the belief that life will be easy if you just do everything right—a mindset she calls “magical thinking.” Instead, Heather explains how holding onto this idea can prevent us from fully trusting God and experiencing real growth.

She shares her personal experiences with disappointment, especially around marriage and body image, and how letting go of perfectionism and unrealistic expectations made space for deeper faith and emotional stability. Ultimately, the message is about moving away from idols and quick fixes, and toward a more honest, grace-filled relationship with Jesus—even if it means accepting that life will have its hardships.

There’s a lot more nuance and encouragement in the episode, so it’s definitely worth a listen!

Resources & Opportunities Mentioned:

• 10 Days of Encouragement (Free!):
  Sign up at heathercreekmore.com to get 10 days of personal, encouraging emails straight from Heather.

• Improve Your Body Image—Fall Programs:

  • 40 Day Journey: Starts Oct. 1, with group meetings from Oct. 7. Sign up at improvebodyimage.com (Look for the “40 Day Journey” tab).

  • In His Image Conference:

    Happening outside of Dallas, TX, on Nov. 15. Details here: https://www.wonderfullymadenutritioncounseling.com/events/in-his-image-body-image-conference-for-teen-girls-and-women-2025 (Early bird pricing ends soon!)

Related Episodes to Check Out:

• Coaching Episode with Presli: Surprising Anger and Idols
  (Heather references Presli's honest story of getting unexpectedly upset over a meal—highlighting hidden idols.)

• 4 Ways to Stop Thinking Negatively About Your Body

• How Spiritual Maturity Can Transform Body Image Struggles

• The Comparison-Free Life book: Heather expands on grace, maturity, and living “comparison free.”

Connect & Support:

• Subscribe so you don’t miss this fall’s gentle, but life-changing, journey toward spiritual maturity.

• Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—Heather loves hearing how the show impacts you!

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If you’re ready to stop comparing and start truly living, this is the episode for you.

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