My Husband Still Drinks: Can Our Marriage Survive My Sobriety?

June 16, 2026
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What happens when you stop drinking, but your spouse doesn't?

One of the biggest fears women face when considering an alcohol-free life is this:

"What will happen to my marriage if I stop drinking and my husband keeps going?"

In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Christy is joined by bestselling author Jon Seidl, his wife Brett, and members of the Love Life Sober leadership team to discuss marriage, sobriety, intimacy, communication, faith, and navigating relationships when alcohol is no longer at the center.

Together, they explore the questions so many women are afraid to ask:

• Will my husband still want to be with me if I stop drinking?

• What if he keeps drinking?

• Will we still have fun together?

• What happens to our intimacy?

• Can our marriage survive if alcohol is no longer part of our relationship?

Through personal stories, practical wisdom, and honest reflections, you'll discover that removing alcohol often reveals deeper opportunities for connection, communication, healing, and growth.

If you've ever worried that sobriety could cost you your marriage, this episode will encourage you to see what might actually be possible on the other side.

In This Episode You'll Learn:

✓ Why many women fear sobriety will hurt their marriage

✓ How to navigate a relationship when your spouse still drinks

✓ Practical ways to stay connected without alcohol

✓ How healthy communication strengthens recovery

✓ The role faith plays in lasting transformation

✓ Why the real challenge is often deeper than alcohol itself

✓ The unexpected gifts couples experience when alcohol is removed from the relationship

Resources Mentioned

Join the Love Life Sober Community
https://lovelifesober.co.uk/community

Learn More About The Aligned Conference
https://www.alignedconference.org/

Order Christy's Book: Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind
https://lovelifesober.co.uk/book

Connect with Christy on Instagram
@lovelifesoberwithchristy

Follow for weekly conversations, testimonies, and practical Christian sobriety support.

Disclaimer

The creators, hosts, and producers of the Love Life Sober podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological, or professional advice nor intend for the podcast or any Love Life Sober communication to substitute for such. Views and opinions expressed in any referenced or linked resources do not necessarily reflect those of the Love Life Sober team or guests.

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Meet Your Host
Christy Osborne was born and raised in Los Angeles and is a graduate of the University of Southern California and Pepperdine University School of Law. After passing the California bar, she moved to London, where she held roles in law, public relations, and business development—including a position at the UK Parliament and founding a popular lifestyle website for American expats.

Christy found her true calling when she gave up alcohol and discovered a passion for helping women do the same. She has since coached hundreds of women across the US and UK as a highly trained senior sobriety coach, blending neuroscience, faith, and practical tools to help clients break free from alcohol and live with purpose.

She is the author of the best-selling Love Life Sober: A 40-Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind, and the host of the Love Life Sober podcast. Christy lives in Sussex, England, with her husband, their two teenagers, Ella and Carter, and their cavapoo, Copper.

You can discover more from Christy at https://lovelifesober.co.uk/
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