Daily Hack to Break Grip of People Pleasing and Being Overly Influenced: Over the Influence Series Ep. 5

November 10, 2026
00:00 26:56
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What if the key to breaking free from people-pleasing, social media pressure, overthinking, and the need to control every outcome isn’t trying harder, but surrendering differently?

In this practical episode of Compared to Who?, Heather Creekmore discusses what it means to follow Jesus through “a thousand small acts of surrender.” Daily surrender isn’t passive, lazy, or giving up. It’s choosing to trust God with your plans, your time, your body, your decisions, and your outcomes.

You’ll discover:

  • Why surrender is a daily decision, not a one-time spiritual moment 06:48

  • How social media, family expectations, and other people’s opinions can influence your choices 07:03

  • Why tightly controlling your life can reveal misplaced faith 12:42

  • A simple morning prayer to surrender your day before checking your phone or seeing other people’s messages 17:33

  • How to pause before opening Instagram and surrender your time and money to God 20:13

  • What to do when you sense the Holy Spirit nudging you toward generosity, patience, or obedience 20:53

  • How an evening review can help you notice where you followed God and where you resisted 23:08

Key takeaway for today: Before the world influences your day, give your day to God.

Listen for the practical prayer:

“Lord, today is yours. I surrender. What do you have for me today?” 21:58

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Heather Creekmore writes and speaks hope to thousands of women each week inspiring them to stop comparing and start living. Her first book Compared to Who? encourages women to uncover the spiritual root of body image issues and find freedom. Her latest release, The Burden of Better, offers women a journey into the depths of God's grace to find a way off the treadmill of constant comparison. Heather has been featured on Fox News, Huff Post, Morning Dose, Church Leaders, and For Every Mom, along with dozens of other shows and podcasts. But she's best recognized for her appearance as a contestant on the Netflix hit show, Nailed It. Heather and her fighter-pilot-turned-pastor husband, Eric have four children and live in Austin, Texas.

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