Overthinking, Obsessing, and the Real Reason You Can’t Stop Thinking About It

September 14, 2026
00:00 25:20
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You replay the conversation, reread the text 100 times, re-analyze the comment, Google the symptom, or fixate. The loop promises that if you think hard enough, you can prevent the bad outcome and finally feel safe. But Heather Creekmore explains that the real issue usually isn’t the topic of the thought. It’s the grip it has on your brain. Overthinking often reveals a deeper desire for control and safety, especially when life feels uncertain.

In this episode:

  • Why overthinking can feel productive, responsible, or even spiritual at 06:08

  • How body-image obsession can become an attempt to control one small part of life when everything else feels uncertain at 08:38

  • Why telling yourself to “stop thinking about it” usually doesn’t work at 12:10

  • What Martha’s story teaches about setting down the need to hold everything alone

  • How to exchange a posture of control for a posture of trust

  • Why obsessive thoughts grow stronger in isolation

  • Five ways to interrupt the loop - and none of them sound like "just stop thinking about it."
  • A super practical, physical practice for surrender you can start using today!

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Heather Creekmore writes and speaks hope to thousands of women each week inspiring them to stop comparing and start living. Her first book Compared to Who? encourages women to uncover the spiritual root of body image issues and find freedom. Her latest release, The Burden of Better, offers women a journey into the depths of God's grace to find a way off the treadmill of constant comparison. Heather has been featured on Fox News, Huff Post, Morning Dose, Church Leaders, and For Every Mom, along with dozens of other shows and podcasts. But she's best recognized for her appearance as a contestant on the Netflix hit show, Nailed It. Heather and her fighter-pilot-turned-pastor husband, Eric have four children and live in Austin, Texas.

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