He Escaped Side B: Spencer Boliou's Testimony

October 15, 2026
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In today's episode, Becket Cook sits down with Spencer Boliou, a singer-songwriter who shares his journey of growing up in a Christian family in Boise, Idaho, navigating same-sex attraction rooted in gender insecurity and envy, and discovering genuine faith through a transformative prayer experience at 17. Spencer recounts how Side B theology initially helped him but ultimately limited his growth by encouraging a gay Christian identity, until a pivotal conversation with a mentor named Jim helped him release that framework, address the roots of his attractions, and experience real change—including opposite-sex attraction and openness to marriage.

Spencer also performs an original song about surrendering everything to Jesus, and the episode closes with encouragement for viewers near the channel’s 200,000-subscriber milestone.

The Becket Cook Show Ep. 256

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Becket Cook was born and raised in Dallas, Texas. He attended Jesuit College Preparatory School of Dallas. After graduating from college, Becket moved to Los Angeles. He worked as a production designer with the top photographers and directors in the world on fashion shoots for magazines such as Vogue and Harper’s Bazaar, and for ad campaigns such as Gap, L'Oréal Paris, and Nike.

Becket lived as a gay man his entire adult life until he came to faith in Christ in 2009. He has lived all over the world in major cities such as Rome, Vienna, and Tokyo, and spends much of his time in ministry, speaking at churches, universities.

Becket graduated from Talbot School of Theology at Biola University in 2017 with a Master of Arts in Theology. His book, A Change of Affection: A Gay Man's Incredible Story of Redemption, with a foreword by Francis Chan, published by Thomas Nelson, released July 30, 2019.
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