A Prayer When You Are Tempted to Think Too Highly of Yourself

April 21, 2026
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It is a subtle thing, pride. It rarely announces itself. It creeps in quietly — in the way we measure ourselves against others, in the quiet satisfaction we feel when we believe we have gotten it right, in the distance we keep from those we have decided are beneath us. And all the while, we may believe we are simply being discerning, or faithful, or righteous.

But God sees the posture of the heart.

In the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector, Jesus draws a portrait of two men at prayer — and the one who goes home justified is not the one with the longer list of religious achievements. It is the one who could not even lift his eyes to heaven. The one who simply said, God, have mercy on me, a sinner. That prayer, so short and so stripped of pretense, was the one that moved the heart of God.

There is a freedom that comes when we stop managing our image before the Lord and simply come as we are. When we release our grip on the comparisons, the tallying, the quiet pride in how far we have come — and return to that place of open-handed dependence. It is not a place of shame. It is the very place where grace meets us.

Tonight, He is not asking for your record. He is asking for your heart. Come low. Come honest. And find, as so many have before you, that it is in that humble place where the Savior draws nearest.


What You'll Take Away

  • Discover why the most dangerous prayers are the ones that are really just conversations with ourselves
  • You'll learn how pride blinds us to our own need for grace — even while we are in the act of worship
  • Discover the freedom that comes from releasing self-righteousness and approaching God with open, honest humility
  • You'll learn why the shortest, simplest prayer in Scripture — "God, have mercy on me, a sinner" — remains one of the most powerful prayers any of us can pray
  • Discover how true humility is not self-deprecation, but a sober, grace-filled awareness of who we are before a holy God

Tonight's Scripture

"For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." — Luke 18:14, NIV

"Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you." — Romans 12:3, NIV

"There is no one righteous, not even one." — Romans 3:10, NIV


Your Evening Prayer

Holy God,

You see what we so often hide from ourselves. Tonight we come not with a list of what we have done right, but with open hands and bowed heads. Forgive us for the moments we have measured our worth against others, or taken quiet pride in our faithfulness. Remind us that every good thing in us is a gift from You — nothing earned, nothing deserved.

Meet us in this humble place. Have mercy on us, sinners that we are. And let that mercy be the ground we stand on, now and always.

In Jesus' name, Amen.


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Keri Eichberger is the author of Win Over Worry: Conquer What Shakes You and Soar With The One Who Overcomes and has a passion for devotional writing. A Jesus-loving Kentucky girl, she is blessed—together with her best friend and husband of more than twenty years, Mike—with a house full of five kids. Keri was ordained through Southeast Christian Church and has devoted her life to full-time ministry. Connect with her at KeriEichberger.com or Instagram.
Lia Girard is a poet, mom, wife, author, and former Faith Editor for Crosswalk.com who delights in the truth, discovering new restaurants and exploring wild places. Formerly Lia Martin, her devotionals, articles and video/audio voiceovers are featured on Crosswalk.com, BibleStudyTools.com, iBelieve.com, and the Your Daily Prayer and Your Nightly Prayer podcasts. She soaks up God on long forest walks and shares her inspiration on Instagram @wildpeace.poetry.
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