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How Does a Committed Church Kid Become a Drag Queen? (with Blake Howard) - Episode 59

April 10, 2023
00:00 48:01
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We've all heard the story of a kid in the church youth group who is now on a destructive path. Many parents are living this story. Sometimes the lessons we teach our kids don’t stick. The faith we hand down doesn’t become their own. They have outside influences that erode the foundation that us parents seek so diligently to build.


In this episode, Catherine shares a cautionary tale of a young man who was raised in the church, in the Bible belt, and yet he chose a very destructive path. Blake Howard found love and affirmation under layers of make-up and pounds fake body parts. There are a lot of lessons that parents can learn from his story. Catherine and Blake discuss:


  • Why we need to talk to our kids about sex early, and how to go about that.
  • The effects of bullying on kids who are struggling in the area of sexuality.
  • How the church often reinforces unhealthy ideas about gender.
  • How to help our kids understand masculinity and femininity.
  • The effects of worldly affirmation.


Along the way, you will see how a church kid can slowly descend into a life of sexual confusion and gender dysphoria, all from a guy who has been there and has a lot of wisdom to offer.


And while today’s tale is tragic, in the very next episode you will hear how this same young man went from being a drag queen to being a minister of the Gospel.


 Only God could write a story like that!


Blake Howard is the Associate Pastor & Creative Director at Xtreme Harvest Church in San Antonio, TX. Blake graduated from Ramp School of Ministry in Hamilton, AL.


To see clips from this interview and find inspiring supplemental quotes and posts, connect with Catherine on Instagram and Facebook . To receive updates about each new podcast and free resources like Scripture songs, Bible verses to pray over prodigal children, and a topical index of Scriptures for prayer, subscribe to Catherine’s website.


Episode Links:

Blake’s Instagram & Facebook Pages



From Mascara to Manhood by Benjamin Blake Howard

God’s Design for Sex Series (4 books) by Stan & Brenna Jones



Red Pilled America, Episode 149: Bondage, February 10, 2023

Allie Beth Stuckey, Episode 748: From Drag Queen & Drug Dealer to Jesus Follower

CPCW Series on Sexuality:

Episode 45: How Do We Help Our Kids to Understand Biblical Sexuality?

Episode 46: How to Talk to Your Kids about Biblical Sexuality

Episode 47: What is Our Culture Teaching Kids about Sexuality

Episode 48: How Our Culture is Distorting Sexuality and Harming Children



Understanding Biblical Sexuality and How To Talk about It with Your Children” by Erin A. Barry and Catherine Segars

What Culture Is Teaching Our Kids about Sexuality: 7 Ways to Respond” by Erin

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Catherine Segars is an award-winning actress and playwright—turned stay-at-home-mom—turned author, speaker, blogger, and motherhood apologist. This homeschooling mama of five has a master’s degree in communications and is earning a master’s degree in Christian apologetics. Catherine helps parents navigate through dangerous secular landmines to establish a sound Biblical foundation for their kids. Author of the e-book Five Myths about Motherhood That Make You Feel Mere, And Why They're Wrong, Catherine is also passionate about helping mothers see their worth in a season when they often feel overwhelmed and irrelevant. You can find Catherine’s blog, dramatic blogcast, and other writings at and connect with her on Facebook and Instagram.
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