Job 11 - Things You Should NEVER Say When a Friend Is Hurting

November 04, 2026
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Today we finally hear from Job's third friend, Zophar, in Job 11 and learn what not to do when someone we love is suffering:

  • Zophar can't handle Job's hard questions, so he shuts them down.
  • "Know therefore that God exacts of you less than your iniquity deserves." Possibly the cruelest thing you could say to someone who is hurting.
  • "Can you fathom the mystery of God?" Much of what Zophar says about God is true, but he uses God's power as a threat against a broken man instead of as comfort.
  • Does suffering always mean you sinned? We need discernment, but blaming a true victim is not biblical behavior.
  • Zophar promises life "clearer than the noonday" if Job just repents, as if we could buy our way to paradise.
  • Honest questions about God deserve patient answers from Scripture.

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