I Just Found Out My Spouse Had an Affair—Where to Even Start?
Finding out your spouse has been unfaithful can feel like your entire world has just shattered. I'm speaking directly to the person who is hurting, confused, and unsure of what to do next in this “best of the best” sweet repeat episode. Whether this terrible discovery is fresh or something you’ve been quietly carrying for a while, this conversation will help you take your first steps toward healing.
I'm also sharing from both sides of the story—as someone who has experienced infidelity and caused it—with compassion, clarity, and a path forward that doesn’t depend on your spouse’s readiness.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, ashamed, or alone… this episode is for you.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
- Why infidelity is more destructive than most people realize
- The truth about healing (and why it doesn’t start where most people think)
- Why jumping straight into couples or marriage counseling may not be the best first step
- The importance of focusing on your personal healing first
- Encouragement for those who haven’t told anyone yet
- How to begin moving forward—even if your spouse isn’t ready
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On Rebuilding Us, she is known for her graceful candor, humor, and her encouraging yet challenging advice. Dana holds a B.A. in communication from Regent University. She has a fierce passion for fashion and a fiercer passion for truth. She shares her life with Shaun, her loving husband of over twenty-five years, their four amazing children, and their “multi-cultural” dog in beautiful Virginia Beach, VA.
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