T.O.N.E. & Truth: How to Be Honest Without Being Hurtful

January 21, 2025
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Hard conversations are often necessary in marriage. You can be loving and truthful at the same time. However, it can be easy to forget how to balance the two in relationships. It’s no secret that marriages, like any close relationships, thrive on open and honest communication. Yet, the art of conveying truth with care often eludes us. Today, we’re diving into this intricate dance and learning how to be honest without causing harm to our spouse or significant other, further driving a wedge in our unity.

In this episode, you’ll learn about:

  • Potential consequences of withholding the truth - how withholding the truth can lead to bitterness and resentment in marriages.
  • Setting intentions for conversations - how to have a positive outcome in mind and center your spouse in conversations rather than yourself
  • Developing the courage to confront marriage problems and find mutual solutions.
  • A powerful acronym T.O.N.E. – Timing, Outcome, Necessity, and Empathy – and how to navigate these discussions successfully.

We also highlight the necessity of empathy in relationships as a means to understand and deepen genuine connections.

Links Mentioned in this Episode:

Download my free audio: "7 Secret Marriage Rules to Know Before I Do and After I Did.”

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Meet Your Host
Dana Che is a speaker, marriage coach, and the host of the Rebuilding US podcast, where she helps people uncomplicate relationships and build deeper connections. She also serves as a Teaching Pastor at a multi-site, multi-ethnic church in Virginia Beach, VA. Dana is known for her graceful candor, humor, and encouraging commitment to the truth.

Dana holds a B.A. in communication from Regent University and is a seminary student at Fuller Theological Seminary. She has a fierce passion for fashion and loves all things beachy. She shares her life with Shaun, her childhood sweetheart and husband of twenty-seven years and their four amazing children in beautiful Virginia Beach, VA.

Connect with Dana:
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Website: danache.com
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