3 Micro-Habits That Make Marriage Better

In this episode, we explore the surprisingly powerful world of micro-habits—those tiny actions that take less than five minutes but, when repeated, create meaningful and lasting change in your marriage. From simple daily rituals to small moments of gratitude to chore-based love notes, you’ll discover how small things practiced often can strengthen connection, build warmth, and shape the overall direction of your relationship.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

• What micro-habits are and why researchers say they matter
• How 1% improvements compound into significant transformation over time
• Why micro-moments help keep couples from slipping into “roommate mode”
• Three daily micro-habits that build connection, gratitude, and emotional safety
• Practical examples of how we use these habits in our own marriage

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Small habits practiced consistently create meaningful change over time.
• Micro-moments protect connection and help couples avoid “roommate mode.”
• Specific gratitude (“Thank you for…”) shifts focus toward what’s working.
• Everyday chores can become tangible expressions of love.
• Simple rituals—like hello, goodbye, and goodnight kisses—strengthen emotional and physical connection.

US TIME CHALLENGE

Choose one micro-habit and practice it every day this week. It can be one of the three we shared or be a micro-moment unique to your relationship. Consistency is the goal, not size. Let the small thing do its quiet, steady work.

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LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear (https://a.co/d/9kNsP4L)
• “5 Micro-Moments That Predict the Health of Your Marriage” by Shlomo and Rivka Slatkin at the Marriage Restoration Project (https://themarriagerestorationproject.com/5-micro-moments-that-predict-the-health-of-your-marriage/)
• “The Art of Micro-Routines: How 5-Minute Habits Can Transform Your Day” by Glossy Magazine (https://theglossymagazine.com/the-art-of-micro-routines-how-5-minute-habits-can-transform-your-day/)
• “12 Micro Moves for Your Marriage” by Ted Lowe (https://allprodad.com/12-micro-moves-for-your-marriage/)

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