Why Marriages Drift (And How to Stop It)

Most marriages don’t fall apart in one big moment. They drift slowly and quietly, often without either person noticing. You can share a house, a life, and a schedule and still end up on relational autopilot.

In this episode, we talk about why connection fades over time and share three simple rhythms that help couples stay emotionally close—not through big gestures, but through small, intentional patterns that gently change the direction of a marriage.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

• Why most marriages drift into autopilot without either person realizing it
• Three simple rhythms that keep a marriage emotionally connected long-term
• How small, intentional patterns quietly change the direction of your relationship

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Marriages change by direction, not by moments. Small patterns shape where you end up.
• Connection must be built on purpose and maintained through every season.
• Repair and emotional openness matter more than perfect communication.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week, talk honestly about whether you’re drifting into autopilot in any area of your marriage, then choose one small shared connection ritual to add. It doesn’t have to be big or impressive. Something simple and intentional is enough. The point isn’t the activity. The point is choosing each other on purpose.

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